Well Im back from vacation and I have to say it was not a good one . First of all Saturday was the burial for my friends mom and then Sunday we got a call that my cousin had a stroke and was in a coma and most likey will not come out of it. So the whole first part of the week was in the hospital and on Tuesday we got the call that she had passed away. I really felt bad for my mom this is also the month that my father and grandmother had died five years ago. She even said to me its always in three's Judy Im so scared who is next.

Well today is my last day of work and then Im on vacation. We are not going any were but we want to try to do day trips. Sometime this week my girlfriend wants to go to the Intrepid. And I want to go to little Italy for the Italian feast. We both love going to the city. Plus this weekend Im having some family over for dinner. But just being off of work is better then anything else.

I loved it and can't wait to see it next week. I wonder if he is in love with him?

Ladies why cant you get it in the bowl. Everyday at work there are at least 3 stalls I have to pass up because some one pissed on the bowl. I mean Im a women and I have never missed getting it in the bowl. There are times when they dont even flush. HELLO! So if you are one of these women that have this habit please let me know why and of cause no one will know who you are on here. So feel free to tell us all and maybe someone out there might understand why because I know I never will .

Yesterday I found out my friends mom died. I felt so bad knowing how she must have felt to hear that her mom was gone and you cant do anything about it. I remember when this happened to me I just wanted to hit rewind and make that day go away. I alway remember before losing a parent hearing about someone going threw it and thinking how am I going to handle it. I still have my mom with me and I think about having to go threw it all over again and knowing it will be worse this time because she is all I have left.